We have all been there, you met someone and in the heat of the moment, whether it is physical attraction or the result of a drunken night out on the town, one-night stands are a thing that happen to us all but, here are the pros and cons that you should think of next time you bring someone home for the night.
You get to sleep with someone, without having to worry about being a relationship.
You are able to be as crazy and wild as you want when it comes to sexual fantasies or things you desire in the bedroom as you will probably never see this person again in your life.
You will probably not remember it the next morning, meaning that anything embarrassing or crazy you did, with be nothing more than the small drifts of a dream that you can no longer remember after the first ten minutes of waking up.
You do not have to worry about the other person thinking that you want to have more of a relationship than just sex, unless of course, this is something that the two of you can equally agree on.
You do not know if the person who you are with is married, if this is the case you could find that their partner harasses you later on in life if they ever were to find out.
You might never get rid of them if they come to stay the night with you. In fact, it is not unheard of for a one-night stand to lead to stalker activity (in which case this stalker advice from Jane would be very helpful for your unfortunate predicament).
You are unsure if the person you are sleeping with has any sexually transmitted diseases and you might be ask risk to get them, even if you are using protection and doing everything right.
You could get yourself into a potentially bad situation, not knowing much about the person, they could be a rapist, killer, etc.
It is always best to tell someone that you trust as much information about the person you are taking home as possible, just encase your friends and family are unable to reach you the next day.
This way, if something does happen, they will have some information to be able to take the the police.
If you find that this is a behavior that you partake in often, it is best that you realize that it is not always going to go the way you planned.
Taking precautions to ensure that everyone involved is safe, is the best way to have the situation end well.
If you are planning on taking someone home, taking them to a hotel is your safest option.
Making sure that you get often STD scans is a great way to protect yourself and any sexual partners that you will be encountering soon.
Using protection that will prevent you from having an unwanted pregnancy is something that should be really considered if this is something you are wanting to do often.
Men and women both enjoy sex, it is a natural and fun things that can sometimes be hard to avoid when you met the right person and the sparks are flying but, ensuring that it is done in a safe environment is the best way to keep all parties involved safe.